You need to relax and let your kinks be!

You need to relax and let your kinks be!

Is there sex after marriage? Yes, but it takes guts and balls to be open and transparent about the things that really turn you on.

And if you aren’t brave enough to do that you’ll end up in a sex-less marriage, which is fun as serving a lifetime prison term.

What to do?

First, you need to determine what things you like in bed. Break out of the norms. Is it crossdressing, strapon, DP or deep-throating? Do you like role-playing? Is your dick rock hard whenever you think about fucking outdoors? Make a list, prioritize.

Second, watch movies sex in those specific niches. Make sure that you learn stuff about these practices, getting turned out as hell along the way.

Third, visit some parties and clubs where folks who are into the same stuff gather as well. Talk to them, share your experiences. As a couple, you’ll feel great being accepted with your kinks by the people who don’t judge you.

Don’t even think about being afraid or ashamed. In this day and age, it’s all about diversity and uniqueness and not about the standard missionary-pose love-making (with the lights off).